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Autism and picky eating: What parents should know

Updated: August 11, 2023 · 8 Minute Read

Rashelle Berry, MPH, MS, RDN, LD

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Rashelle Berry, MPH, MS, RDN, LD


  • Almost all parents of children with autism report some form of eating concern like food selectivity, rapid eating, chewing problems, food stealing, vomiting, etc.
  • If you have a selective eater, see your pediatrician to rule out a possible nutritional deficiency and/or underlying medical causes of your child’s eating issues
  • Autistic children need extra time to visually explore, smell, and touch their food before tasting it
  • Autism feeding therapy can be offered through a number of different types of providers including speech and language pathologists, occupational therapists, behavioral therapists, and nutritionists
  • Applied behavior analysis (ABA) is a type of behavior therapy that will aim to improve behaviors with mealtimes and increase dietary variety and decrease unwanted behaviors such as food refusal

What kind of mealtime issues are common?

  • “All children go through a picky eating phase, it’s not a big deal.”
  • “You just have to show them who is in charge at mealtime — at our house, no one leaves the table until their plate is clean.”
  • “I understand your frustration, my child is also sooo picky and never wants to eat their vegetables.”


It isn’t you.

So… most parents say their kids are reluctant to try new foods. What’s the difference between common pickiness and more selective eating?


Supporting Your Selective-Eater

SightAutistic children spend more time looking at their food.

Smell: How a food smells matters a lot to your child.

Touch: Autistic kids tend to be more sensitive to objects and textures.

Phrases that Help and Hinder Your Selective-Eater


Professional Care

Feeding Therapy

  • Trouble feeding oneself
  • Food aversions
  • Poor posture and/or body control
  • Sensory and texture issues


Next Steps

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